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PMS…Safe not Sorry

Saturday, July 12th, 2008

Almost every woman who has ever suffered through PMS knows that middle of the night craving for chocolate. Or, as one woman said, the irrational urge to do bodily harm to her boyfriend upon finding out he had just eaten the last Snickers bar! There are ways to get those crunchy or sweet craving to leave you alone during PMS time!

PMS Hint: Starving off craving is about planning…not starving! For some great crunchy foods try crisp veggies, crunchy granola or trail mix, and rice cakes. For some sweet cravings, instead of reaching for that chocolate bar, try bite sized chocolate pieces, your favorite yogurt flavor, or low calorie (none fat) desserts.

Teens, Sex, and PMS

Thursday, May 22nd, 2008

When I talk to women about PMS, one of the major concerns that I have is how younger women and teenage girls are learning about PMS. Mostly, this concerns me because if we are not talking about PMS, then we are passing on the legacy of PMS as a taboo subject. Granted, almost every mother gives the basic talk with her sex and pregnacy talk that includes the statement “you can come to me about anything,” but are we really encouraging young girls and teenage girls to discuss the topics around PMS?

My fear is that we are not! Why?

  • Perhaps because our mothers did not discuss PMS with us, so we never thought it was ok to talk about cramps or PMS headaches.
  • Maybe because the topic of PMS is approached in a sterile way of medical terms with a 1950’s film that it does not seem to be a safe subject.
  • It could be the connection between PMS and sexuality (entering childbearing years) that scares most parents away from the topic.
  • Either way, without a firm understanding of the PMS symptoms coming her way every month for the next 30+ years of her life, a teenage girl will resist the planning that can help her ease the pain of PMS every month.

    PMS Teenager and Dad

    Friday, April 18th, 2008

    When his little girl hits maturity and gets her period, a father often have a more difficult time dealing with the PMS symptoms because it signifies the official end of sugar and spice. For a girl struggling with PMS headaches, cramps, and mood swings as well as the pains of teenage years, the sudden absence of her relationship with her father might make adjustment more complex and confusing.

    A few tips for mothers trying to help fathers through the first stages of teenage PMS:

  • Help them build a new relationship to move into an adult relationship.
  • Encourage them to build new activities together around their shared interests.
  • Find ways to help him understand the pains she is going through like cramps and headaches. He should understand that this is a natural occurance.
  • Become a conduit between the two of them. He does not know what to say or do and she is uncomfortable with becoming a woman. They share this in common.
  • Talk to each separately and explain the others point of view to build empathy between them.
  • Get each to sign up for FREE PMS Centrals email alerts and check out the book The Princess and The PMS.
  • Most men do not feel comfortable addressing the issues with their wife of PMS, so when they find the same qualities of PMS in their daughter, they feel lost and out of place. All of the sudden, the little girl he played with is a young women developing and maturing. Rather than allowing their father-daughter relationship to dissolve, you can use PMS as a building block for both of them using the tools of PMS Central.

    Help with PMS Teenagers!

    Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

    Moms, are you thriving through the teenage years? Join us in a teleseminar series, 8 Secrets Every Mom Needs to Know. No need to leave your house. Just grab a cup of coffee and stay in your comfy bath robe.

    We will talk for one hour for a fun and relevant series to discuss the hot topics affecting teen girls and how mom’s really fit into their lives. You will have an opportunity to share in conversation about the successes and challenges of raising your teenage daughter and get expert strategies to help empower you and other moms through this process. Come and share your authentic challenges and successes…NO EDITING of yourself necessary!

    Guaranteed to be a supportive environment!

    To learn more and register, visit www.teenwisdom.com/series.

    PMS: The Talk Cure

    Wednesday, January 30th, 2008

    Overall, PMS is considered a taboo subject because of its relationship to sex and reproduction. Taught as a one hour extension in a health class with a small pamphlet full of female anatomy diagrams, most young girls feel overwhelmed, self conscious, and uncomfortable at the end of the hours lesson to ask questions. As most girls are not raised in an atmosphere that discusses sex and PMS freely, being thrown into a discussion of both, in front of other girls, at the most awkward stage of their lives is a little like throwing bricks to a drowning person.

    What now? Here are some simple steps you can use to break the cycle of PMS before it breaks you:

  • Look for Changes:
  • Where are the places that you can change PMS discussions? Usually, the best place to start is schools and civic groups. By engaging in your community, either online or offline, you help to spread the word that PMS discussions are acceptable and responsible.

  • Find the Best Information:
  • When you are involved in groups that discuss PMS, you will learn tons of information about what works best for other women as well as feel connected into a community for support. By learning about what works from research and other women, you can feel in control of what is affecting your life.

  • Reach Out to Others:
  • Form a group for teenage girls filled with women willing to talk about the symptoms and ways of dealing with PMS. This may be a painful step for most women, but sharing information will make it all easier. Plus, knowing that women will feel stronger because they don’t have to keep quiet about their pain is empowering.

    Through these steps, you can not only make a difference in your own reactions to PMS, but you can make a difference in the way other young women feel about PMS.

    For free email reminders and discussion forums about PMS, sign up today and end the cycle destruction of PMS.

    Helping Daddy Deal with PMS

    Friday, January 25th, 2008

    Here are a few tips to help father deal with PMS issues with their teenage daughters:

  • Female Life Lines: Find a female (your wife, sister, teacher, or school counselor) for teenage daughters to talk to. Encourage her to be open with him and feel free to come to you with all issues, but realize that his gender might make it difficult for both of them. Be ready to help out.
  • Snacks Attacks: Keep PMS friendly snacks like fruits, veggies, and ginger cookies around for cravings. Establishing these habits early will help her deal with PMS for many years to come. Bottled water is always a great source of cleansing the system.
  • Information: Help him by educating him on the issues surrounding PMS. While he might have knowledge of PMS from the point of view of a husband or brother, it is different because it his little girl!
  • Workout: Encourage him to exercise with her during PMS times. Light exercise will keep them both in shape and help them bond.
  • Want to read more about PMS and how you can help those effected in your life (including teenager and fathers??), visit PMS Central for free email alerts, articles, and discussion forums.

    Teenage Girls and PMS

    Wednesday, January 23rd, 2008

    Most women understand the PMS cycle and learn to anticipate the early warning signs of PMS: cramps, mood swings, cravings, headaches, and bloating. But, for a teenage girl, just entering into womenhood, PMS can be a new and frightening experience that they often face alone or without information about what can help. This does not have to be the case.

    For many young women, the embarassment of asking questions about PMS is hard enough. With the pressures of the usual teenage girl based on peer, boys, and body changes, explosive versions of PMS are often experienced and should be expected. After all, most women have years to adjust to the ravages of PMS. Teenage girls are treading on new ground.

    Here are a few tips to help teenagers suffering from PMS:

  • Female Life Lines: Find a female (other than yourself–aunt, grandmother, teacher) for your daughter to talk to. Encourage her to be open with you and feel free to come to you with all issues, but realize that she might find it hard to ask you questions relating to changes in her body.
  • Snacks Attacks: Keep PMS friendly snacks like fruits, veggies, and ginger cookies around for cravings. Establishing these habits early will help her deal with PMS for many years to come. Bottled water is always a great source of cleansing the system.
  • Stock Up: Make sure she always has female products and pain relievers on hand to help her with PMS. Help her set up a schedule of anticipating her needs for next month.
  • Workout: Offer to exercise with her during PMS times. Light exercise will keep you both in shape and help her bond with you.
  • Many women faced the questions and unreal circumstances of PMS without the aid or support of anyone. It was a taboo subject. If you only suggest the PMScentral website to her for articles, FREE email reminders, and the PMS forum where she can ask questions of our experts, then you will give her a resource of information she can depend on for the rest of her life.